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Product updates, guides, and community content.

How to Ask Your Wife to Be Your Mistress: Bringing Femdom Into an Existing Relationship
Asking your wife or long-term partner to take a dominant role isn't a single conversation, it's a process. A real guide to bringing femdom into an existing marriage without making it weird, scaring her off, or burning the relationship down.
May 31, 2026
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What's New: Habit Tracking, a Real Task Manager, and a Better Name
We finally built habit tracking, even though we swore we never would. Plus a task management view for Taskers drowning in tasks, editable usernames, taskee nudges, and a softer-spoken Sofia.
May 30, 2026
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D/s Dynamic Explained: A Beginner's Glossary and Guide
What is a D/s dynamic? A plain-English glossary for beginners. The roles, the key terms, the misconceptions, and how to figure out if it is right for you.
May 27, 2026
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Sub Training: A Week-by-Week Plan for the First 30 Days
A structured 30-day sub training plan with specific daily tasks, week-by-week progression, and role guidance for Doms, couples, and solo subs.
May 25, 2026
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Solo Submission: How to Practice D/s Without a Partner
Solo submission as a real identity and a deliberate practice. How to design tasks, rituals, and accountability when you're your own Dom.
May 18, 2026
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What's New: Boss Raids, Rebuilt Challenges, and Agreements
Your tasks now deal damage to demons in Discord. Plus multi-select, challenge tasks rebuilt from scratch, versioned relationship agreements, and a desktop that finally looks like a desktop.
May 14, 2026
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Season I: The Inner War
Boss Raids come to the SubTasks Discord. Four weekly bosses. Your tasks deal damage. Open to Pro members.
May 12, 2026
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Femdom Task Ideas: 50 Tasks for Female-Led Dynamics
50 femdom task ideas organized by category, from daily devotion and service to worship, training, long-distance, and public protocol. Built for real female-led dynamics.
May 11, 2026
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The SubTasks Community Archive Project
Why SubTasks is preserving older kink, D/s, polyamory, and sex-positive community sites before they disappear.
May 4, 2026
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100 Tasks to Give Your Sub: A Dom's Complete Playbook
A deep well of tasks to give your sub, organized by intensity and flavor. 100 concrete, actionable ideas plus the task design principles that keep both partners engaged.
May 4, 2026
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Service Submission: Tasks and Ideas for Service-Oriented Subs
A practical guide to service submission with 35+ service sub task ideas across household, personal care, admin, protocol, digital, and creative categories.
April 30, 2026
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BDSM Aftercare Guide: What to Do After a Scene
A practical guide to BDSM aftercare for both Doms and subs. What it is, why it matters, and how to build it into your dynamic.
April 27, 2026
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How to Be a Good Dominant: A Practical Guide for D/s Relationships
Being a good Dom is less about control and more about design. Practical advice on task design, feedback, building an economy, and avoiding burnout.
April 23, 2026
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D/s Rules and Protocols: A Practical Guide with Examples
The difference between rules, protocols, rituals, and tasks in a D/s dynamic, with real examples and how to implement each one.
April 19, 2026
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What's New: The Shop, Five Languages, and Task Due Times
Points have a new purpose. Spend them on power-ups that let you bend the rules of the game. Also: five languages and specific time-of-day task deadlines.
April 17, 2026
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Obedience App Review 2026: Features, Pricing, and Verdict
An honest review of the Obedience app from a team that builds a competing product. Pricing, features, real user complaints, and how it compares in 2026.
April 15, 2026
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BDSM Journaling Prompts: 40 Prompts to Deepen Your Dynamic
Journaling prompts for submissives and Doms, organized by purpose. Self-reflection, dynamic check-ins, scene processing, and growth.
April 11, 2026
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Submissive Training: A Practical Guide to Structure, Tasks, and Growth
A comprehensive guide to submissive training through tasks, structure, and accountability. For all genders, experience levels, and dynamic styles.
April 8, 2026
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Reward Ideas for Submissives: 30+ Ideas That Actually Motivate
Practical reward ideas for D/s dynamics organized by category. Experiences, privileges, gifts, and how a points-based system makes rewards feel earned.
April 6, 2026
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BDSM Task Ideas for Beginners: Where to Start When You Have No Idea Where to Start
New to D/s tasks? Here are practical beginner task ideas organized by what your dynamic actually looks like, plus ready-made Task Kits you can import and start using today.
April 4, 2026
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Punishment Ideas for Submissives: Beyond the Obvious
Practical, proportional punishment ideas for D/s dynamics. From writing tasks to loss of privileges, plus how a structured demerit system makes consequences feel fair.
April 3, 2026
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What's New: Journals, Task Ideas, and Kit Groups
Taskees can journal now. Taskers can read it. Also: task suggestions when your brain is empty, and kits that have chapters.
April 3, 2026
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BDSM Task Generator: How to Get Endless Task Ideas for Your Dynamic
Stop staring at a blank screen. Use a BDSM task generator to get personalized task ideas for your D/s dynamic, whether you want structure, playfulness, or something in between.
April 1, 2026
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What's New: Chat, Task Kits, and Sort
Talk to your partner without leaving the app. Share your entire dynamic as a downloadable Kit. Sort and reorder everything.
March 30, 2026
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How to Start a D/s Dynamic: A Practical Guide
A practical, beginner-friendly guide to starting a D/s dynamic. Covers communication, consent, structure, and how to build trust from day one.
March 16, 2026
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SubTasks Pro: What It Is and What Stays Free
SubTasks is launching a paid tier. Here's what's in it, what stays free, and why.
March 15, 2026
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How to Maintain a D/s Dynamic Long Distance
Distance doesn't break a D/s dynamic. The wrong tools do. Here's how to keep structure, accountability, and connection when you're not in the same room.
March 14, 2026
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What's New: Day-of-Week Scheduling, Permissions, Mood Status, and Obedience Import
Four new features that make your dynamic more flexible and easier to start.
March 11, 2026
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What's New: Notes
Your rules lived in a Google Doc. That was always weird.
March 10, 2026
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The Privacy Problem with Kink Apps (And What We're Doing Differently)
Breaches in kink apps don't just leak data. They out people, end careers, and ruin lives. Here's what's actually happened, why most apps fall short, and what SubTasks does differently.
March 9, 2026
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What's New: Photo Proof
"I did it, I promise" just got a lot less convincing.
March 7, 2026
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What's New: Bedtime and Streak Settings
The app thought your day ended at midnight. The app was wrong. Also: streaks, but make it your call.
March 6, 2026
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Can a Sub Practice Without a Dom?
Can a sub practice submission without a Dom? The community has thoughts, and the answer is more interesting than you'd expect.
March 2, 2026
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Building Trust Through Structure: A Guide to D/s Routines
Why routines are the foundation of a healthy D/s dynamic, and how to build ones that actually stick.
February 26, 2026
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What we're doing to protect your data (and why it matters more in a kink app)
We shipped field-level encryption across SubTasks. Here's what that means, what it protects against, and where the honest limits are.
February 25, 2026
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Welcome to SubTasks
Introducing SubTasks, a task management app built for D/s dynamics. Earn achievements, assign tasks, and bring structure to your dynamic.
February 25, 2026
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How to Set Up a D/s Task System That Actually Works
A practical guide to building a D/s task system with real structure, real stakes, and a feedback loop that keeps both partners engaged.
February 24, 2026
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Daily Tasks for Submissives: 30 Ideas to Try
Whether you're new to power exchange or years into your dynamic, here are 30 daily task ideas to keep your D/s relationship intentional and alive.
February 20, 2026
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Free Alternatives to Obedience App: What's Actually Out There in 2026
Looking for a free alternative to Obedience App? Here are your best options in 2026, including one that's completely free with no paywalls, no premium tier, and no catch.
February 16, 2026
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Best BDSM Apps for Couples in 2026
An honest look at every major D/s task and habit-tracking app available in 2026, including what they cost, what they do well, and where they fall short.
February 13, 2026
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