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Product updates, guides, and community content.

What's New: Co-op Mode, Timers on Tasks, and Vacation Mode for Everyone
Co-op Mode gives both partners a shared board to manage together. Tasks can carry a timer, the Tasks tab grew a month calendar, and Vacation Mode and task repair are now generally available. Plus a guided task form, kit covers, and a bug sweep.
September 4, 2026
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Femdom Challenges: 30 Ideas for a Female-Led Dynamic
Use 30 femdom challenge ideas to build structured 7, 14, or 30-day arcs with checkpoints, rewards, and room for a real female-led dynamic.
August 30, 2026
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BDSM Challenge Ideas for Couples: 30 Ways to Turn Your Dynamic Into a Game
Thirty time-boxed BDSM challenge ideas for couples who want a beginning, checkpoints, a finish, and a reward instead of another disconnected task list.
August 26, 2026
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Long-Distance Punishment Ideas for D/s Couples: Remote Consequences That Stay Fair
Long-distance punishment ideas that work across time zones, travel, privacy limits, and uneven capacity without turning accountability into coercion.
August 22, 2026
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BDSM for Beginners: A Grounded Guide to Starting Safely
A plain-language guide to BDSM for beginners, covering consent, boundaries, safety, low-pressure ways to explore, and how to decide what fits your dynamic.
August 18, 2026
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What's New: Ask in Your Own Words, One Inbox for Everything, and Solo Mode Grows Up
Taskees can finally ask for something in their own words instead of picking from a menu, and the answer takes the whole screen. Chat, asks, reactions and activity now live in one Inbox. Solo Mode stopped being a demo. Plus Vacation Mode, editable wheels, and a long bug sweep.
August 14, 2026
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D/s for Long-Term Couples: How to Keep the Dynamic Alive
A practical system for keeping a long-term D/s dynamic connected, playful, and sustainable through routines, stress, parenting, and changing needs.
August 6, 2026
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How to Negotiate Kink Boundaries Without Making It Weird
A practical, human way to talk about kink limits, desires, safewords, and aftercare without making your partner feel like they're in a job interview.
August 3, 2026
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How to Write a D/s Relationship Agreement You'll Use
Create a practical D/s agreement that covers purpose, roles, limits, communication, accountability, reviews, and a clean path for change.
July 30, 2026
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Rules vs. Protocols vs. Rituals: What's the Difference?
Learn what rules, protocols, and rituals each do in a D/s dynamic, with examples and a simple way to choose the right structure.
July 27, 2026
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D/s Points and Rewards System That Actually Motivates
Build a balanced points economy with task values, reward prices, and a simple tuning loop that keeps your dynamic fun.
July 23, 2026
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Weekly D/s Rituals: How to Build Structure That Lasts
A practical guide to designing weekly D/s rituals that create connection, structure, and meaning without becoming another chore list.
July 20, 2026
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D/s Check-In Questions: 40 Prompts for Better Conversations
Forty practical prompts for checking the health, workload, boundaries, connection, and direction of a D/s dynamic.
July 16, 2026
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What's New: Fail a Task on the Spot, Kits That Carry Habits, and Creators Who Finally Hear Back
Fail a task the moment it is missed instead of waiting for the day to reset. Task Kits now bring their habits along, fully configured. Kit creators get told when someone installs their work. Plus a dashboard that stops fighting you and a long sweep of fixes.
July 16, 2026
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Long-Distance D/s Task Ideas: 50 Ways to Stay Connected
Fifty practical tasks for long-distance D/s dynamics, from quick daily connection to service, play, reflection, and visit planning.
July 13, 2026
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Solo Submissive Rituals: How to Build a Practice With No Dom
Most submissive rituals assume a Dom on the other end. Here's how to build solo submissive rituals that hold when it's just you, from a sub who actually does it.
July 2, 2026
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FLR Levels Explained: From Soft Lead to Total Authority Transfer
The four FLR levels everyone references but nobody actually explains well. What Levels 1 through 4 of a female-led relationship look like in real life, how to pick yours, and how to move between them without breaking anything.
June 28, 2026
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FLR vs Femdom: What's the Difference, and Which One Are You Actually Building?
FLR and femdom get used interchangeably online and they shouldn't. A clear breakdown of female-led relationships vs femdom, where they overlap, where they don't, and which one fits the dynamic you actually want.
June 24, 2026
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Sub Drop and Dom Drop: What They Are and How to Handle Them
Sub drop and dom drop are the emotional crash that can follow intense scenes or sustained D/s headspace. A practical guide to recognizing it, responding to it, and building your dynamic to prevent the worst of it.
June 20, 2026
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How to Be a Good Mistress: A Practical Guide for New Dominant Women
Being a good Mistress is less about cracking a whip and more about designing an experience your sub wants to keep showing up for. Practical advice on authority, task design, feedback, and the parts of female dominance nobody talks about.
June 16, 2026
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How to Train a Submissive: A Dom's Practical Guide
How to train a submissive through structure, calibrated tasks, and feedback loops. A Dom-side guide to running a real training program without burning either of you out.
June 12, 2026
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How to Start a Femdom Relationship: A Practical Guide for New Couples
How to start a femdom relationship without making it weird: bringing it up, finding your flavor, designing the dynamic, and avoiding the newbie traps that derail most couples in the first month.
June 8, 2026
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Dom Tasks: What Dominants Actually Do in a D/s Dynamic
Dom tasks are the work the Dom puts into a dynamic, not just the tasks they hand out. A practical guide to task design, economy building, and the craft of being a great Dom.
June 4, 2026
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What's New: The Wheel Is Live (and Habits and the Task Manager Are Now for Everyone)
The Wheel hands an outcome over to pure chance: rewards, punishments, or a cruel mix, spun blind if you want. Plus Habits, the Task Manager, and limits and desires lists are out of beta and in everyone's app, with editable usernames and a setup checklist for new dynamics.
June 3, 2026
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How to Ask Your Wife to Be Your Mistress: Bringing Femdom Into an Existing Relationship
Asking your wife or long-term partner to take a dominant role isn't a single conversation, it's a process. A real guide to bringing femdom into an existing marriage without making it weird, scaring her off, or burning the relationship down.
May 31, 2026
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What's New: Habit Tracking, a Real Task Manager, and a Better Name
We finally built habit tracking, even though we swore we never would. Plus a task management view for Taskers drowning in tasks, editable usernames, taskee nudges, and a softer-spoken Sofia.
May 30, 2026
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D/s Dynamic Explained: A Beginner's Glossary and Guide
What is a D/s dynamic? A plain-English glossary for beginners. The roles, the key terms, the misconceptions, and how to figure out if it is right for you.
May 27, 2026
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Sub Training: A Week-by-Week Plan for the First 30 Days
A structured 30-day sub training plan with specific daily tasks, week-by-week progression, and role guidance for Doms, couples, and solo subs.
May 25, 2026
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Solo Submission: How to Practice D/s Without a Partner
Solo submission as a real identity and a deliberate practice. How to design tasks, rituals, and accountability when you're your own Dom.
May 18, 2026
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What's New: Boss Raids, Rebuilt Challenges, and Agreements
Your tasks now deal damage to demons in Discord. Plus multi-select, challenge tasks rebuilt from scratch, versioned relationship agreements, and a desktop that finally looks like a desktop.
May 14, 2026
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Season I: The Inner War
Boss Raids come to the SubTasks Discord. Four weekly bosses. Your tasks deal damage. Open to Pro members.
May 12, 2026
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Femdom Task Ideas: 50 Tasks for Female-Led Dynamics
50 femdom task ideas organized by category, from daily devotion and service to worship, training, long-distance, and public protocol. Built for real female-led dynamics.
May 11, 2026
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The SubTasks Community Archive Project
Why SubTasks is preserving older kink, D/s, polyamory, and sex-positive community sites before they disappear.
May 4, 2026
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100 Tasks to Give Your Sub: A Dom's Complete Playbook
A deep well of tasks to give your sub, organized by intensity and flavor. 100 concrete, actionable ideas plus the task design principles that keep both partners engaged.
May 4, 2026
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Service Submission: Tasks and Ideas for Service-Oriented Subs
A practical guide to service submission with 35+ service sub task ideas across household, personal care, admin, protocol, digital, and creative categories.
April 30, 2026
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BDSM Aftercare Guide: What to Do After a Scene
A practical guide to BDSM aftercare for both Doms and subs. What it is, why it matters, and how to build it into your dynamic.
April 27, 2026
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How to Be a Good Dominant: A Practical Guide for D/s Relationships
Being a good Dom is less about control and more about design. Practical advice on task design, feedback, building an economy, and avoiding burnout.
April 23, 2026
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D/s Rules and Protocols: A Practical Guide with Examples
The difference between rules, protocols, rituals, and tasks in a D/s dynamic, with real examples and how to implement each one.
April 19, 2026
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What's New: The Shop, Five Languages, and Task Due Times
Points have a new purpose. Spend them on power-ups that let you bend the rules of the game. Also: five languages and specific time-of-day task deadlines.
April 17, 2026
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BDSM Journaling Prompts: 40 Prompts to Deepen Your Dynamic
Journaling prompts for submissives and Doms, organized by purpose. Self-reflection, dynamic check-ins, scene processing, and growth.
April 11, 2026
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Submissive Training: A Practical Guide to Structure, Tasks, and Growth
A comprehensive guide to submissive training through tasks, structure, and accountability. For all genders, experience levels, and dynamic styles.
April 8, 2026
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Reward Ideas for Submissives: 30+ Ideas That Actually Motivate
Practical reward ideas for D/s dynamics organized by category. Experiences, privileges, gifts, and how a points-based system makes rewards feel earned.
April 6, 2026
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BDSM Task Ideas for Beginners: Where to Start When You Have No Idea Where to Start
New to D/s tasks? Here are practical beginner task ideas organized by what your dynamic actually looks like, plus ready-made Task Kits you can import and start using today.
April 4, 2026
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Punishment Ideas for Submissives: Beyond the Obvious
Practical, proportional punishment ideas for D/s dynamics. From writing tasks to loss of privileges, plus how a structured demerit system makes consequences feel fair.
April 3, 2026
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What's New: Journals, Task Ideas, and Kit Groups
Taskees can journal now. Taskers can read it. Also: task suggestions when your brain is empty, and kits that have chapters.
April 3, 2026
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BDSM Task Generator: How to Get Endless Task Ideas for Your Dynamic
Stop staring at a blank screen. Use a BDSM task generator to get personalized task ideas for your D/s dynamic, whether you want structure, playfulness, or something in between.
April 1, 2026
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What's New: Chat, Task Kits, and Sort
Talk to your partner without leaving the app. Share your entire dynamic as a downloadable Kit. Sort and reorder everything.
March 30, 2026
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How to Start a D/s Dynamic: A Practical Guide
A practical, beginner-friendly guide to starting a D/s dynamic. Covers communication, consent, structure, and how to build trust from day one.
March 16, 2026
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How to Maintain a D/s Dynamic Long Distance
Distance doesn't break a D/s dynamic. The wrong tools do. Here's how to keep structure, accountability, and connection when you're not in the same room.
March 14, 2026
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What's New: Day-of-Week Scheduling, Permissions, and Mood Status
Three new features that make your dynamic more flexible and easier to manage.
March 11, 2026
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What's New: Notes
Your rules lived in a Google Doc. That was always weird.
March 10, 2026
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What's New: Photo Proof
"I did it, I promise" just got a lot less convincing.
March 7, 2026
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What's New: Bedtime and Streak Settings
The app thought your day ended at midnight. The app was wrong. Also: streaks, but make it your call.
March 6, 2026
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Can a Sub Practice Without a Dom?
Can a sub practice submission without a Dom? The community has thoughts, and the answer is more interesting than you'd expect.
March 2, 2026
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Building Trust Through Structure: A Guide to D/s Routines
Why routines are the foundation of a healthy D/s dynamic, and how to build ones that actually stick.
February 26, 2026
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What we're doing to protect your data (and why it matters more in a kink app)
We shipped field-level encryption across SubTasks. Here's what that means, what it protects against, and where the honest limits are.
February 25, 2026
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Welcome to SubTasks
Introducing SubTasks, a task management app built for D/s dynamics. Earn achievements, assign tasks, and bring structure to your dynamic.
February 25, 2026
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How to Set Up a D/s Task System That Actually Works
A practical guide to building a D/s task system with real structure, real stakes, and a feedback loop that keeps both partners engaged.
February 24, 2026
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Daily Tasks for Submissives: 30 Ideas to Try
Whether you're new to power exchange or years into your dynamic, here are 30 daily task ideas to keep your D/s relationship intentional and alive.
February 20, 2026
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